Following Jesus does not always take us on an easy path. It can be especially challenging when the culture (mission field) in which we’ve been placed is detrimental or even hostile to the life we have chosen to live. Obviously, we are in such a situation now in many ways. Hostility toward one another becomes more frighteningly normal every day. Things I was raised to value – statesmanship, diplomacy, compassion, kindness, empathy, etc. – are regarded as marks of weakness by many. Division between human beings seems to be a given, if not a macabre kind of necessity. Power is the god worshipped, even when thinly draped in a “Jesus” veneer. How does a Jesus-follower survive, much less thrive in such a toxic daily immersion?
There’s no one answer to this, nor does the perfect “to-do” list exist for it. Disciples would do well to share best practices with one another in order to encourage each other. Spending time with God daily is a given, I would think. In addition to that, here a few things to remember or to do that help me stay focused:
- GRACE COMES FIRST. Grace is a gift that is unearned, unanticipated, undeserved, and yet freely given. Creation itself is an act of God’s grace. God calling a people through whom all the world would be blessed is grace in action. The crucified Jesus rising in victory over all that separates us from God and each other is the supreme act of grace. I am someone whom God loves supremely and to whom God offers uncommon grace. Grace is where God starts with me. That’s where I must start with others, across the board.
- SEEK THE HEART OF GOD. I must see others and see myself as God sees us all. I need to spend time in the Bible every day, not just to learn information, to memorize verses, or to catalogue “the letter of the law.” I should invite the Holy Spirit to push my heart beyond the words to that to which the words point – the very nature and heart of God. God is love, period. (I John 4:8.) Rather than just let my heart rate accelerate because of today’s news feed or the latest infuriating social media post, I need to allow my heart to beat with God’s heart.
- PRACTICE PHILIPPIANS 2:3. (“…in humility value others above yourselves.”) As exasperating and even threatening as they can be to us, people are not the enemy. People can be unspeakably cruel and create unbelievable damage. We all face accountability for our actions. Yet there’s not a human being alive whom God sees as unworthy of the life, death, resurrection, and promised return of Jesus the Christ. My fiercest theological or political opponents deserve grace from me, and not judgement. I must allow Paul’s words in Philippians 2:3 to haunt me in every reaction or encounter of mine.
- MEASURE EVERYTHING BY THE GREAT COMMANDMENT AND THE GREAT COMMISSION. My goal is not just to keep myself intact. As a follower of Jesus, I am under clear marching orders. Jesus said the central commandment which governs and interprets all other commandments is to love God and to love others as God loves us. (Mark 12:28ff.) And Jesus commissioned all who claim him as Lord to go and make disciples – i.e., those who become like Jesus and who follow him. (Matthew 28:19.) Nothing changes these mandates nor gives me an excuse to neglect them, regardless of the type of era in which I am living.
- FIND AND JOIN THE HELPERS. Fred Rogers’ wise advice for times of crisis still holds. Even while all else is a sea of chaos, harm, and hatred, wherever people are loving and helping others, that’s where God is at work. Find them and join them. This is not without risk. Sometimes it will mean speaking up and speaking out, in both love and clarity, when it would seem much safer to stay silent and uninvolved. It may also mean acting up; again with love and clarity. (Think John Lewis’ admonition of getting into “good trouble.”) Security is not the goal. Love is.
We would all do we to learn all we can about the disciples of the first century. While their age was different than ours in multiple ways, it was also a time of authoritarian rule, division, and violence. Yet the movement thrived and grew like wildfire. History, fully embraced, can teach us much.
There’s nothing exhaustive about the above, and it’s certainly not a “one size fits all.” It’s just what seems to help me at this point. If you are a follower of Jesus, what’s working for you in these days?
I’ll see you around the next bend in the river.